{"id":5090,"date":"2020-04-24T13:24:53","date_gmt":"2020-04-24T06:24:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bacdau.vn\/?post_type=kb&p=5090"},"modified":"2020-04-24T13:24:53","modified_gmt":"2020-04-24T06:24:53","slug":"su-nghiep-va-tinh-yeu-nen-chon-gi","status":"publish","type":"kb","link":"https:\/\/bacdau.vn\/kb\/su-nghiep-va-tinh-yeu-nen-chon-gi\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00ean ch\u1ecdn g\u00ec?"},"content":{"rendered":"

S\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p va\u0300 \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng cu\u0303ng nh\u01b0 linh h\u00f4\u0300n va\u0300 th\u00ea\u0309 xa\u0301c. Tuy no\u0301 la\u0300 hai pha\u0323m tru\u0300 hoa\u0300n toa\u0300n kha\u0301c nhau nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00ea\u0309 thi\u00ea\u0301u nhau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c. \u01a0\u0309 tu\u00f4\u0309i tre\u0309, r\u00e2\u0301t nhi\u00ea\u0300u \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng lu\u00f4n t\u01b0\u0323 ho\u0309i ba\u0309n th\u00e2n: \u201cS\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p va\u0300 ti\u0300nh y\u00eau, ca\u0301i na\u0300o quan tro\u0323ng h\u01a1n?\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n

Th\u01b0\u0323c t\u00ea\u0301 ma\u0300 no\u0301i, se\u0303 kh\u00f4ng m\u00f4\u0323t ai co\u0301 c\u00e2u tra\u0309 l\u01a1\u0300i chi\u0301nh xa\u0301c cho ba\u0323n. Chi\u0309 co\u0301 ba\u0323n m\u01a1\u0301i co\u0301 th\u00ea\u0309 nhi\u0300n ra \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c c\u00e2u tra\u0309 l\u01a1\u0300i cu\u0309a chi\u0301nh ba\u0323n. Ba\u0323n \u0111ang la\u0323c gi\u01b0\u0303a m\u00f4\u0323t cu\u00f4\u0323c chi\u00ea\u0301n gi\u01b0\u0303a ti\u0300nh ca\u0309m va\u0300 ly\u0301 tri\u0301. N\u00ea\u0301u ba\u0323n mu\u00f4\u0301n cho\u0323n l\u01b0\u0323a thi\u0300 ba\u0323n pha\u0309i hi\u00ea\u0309u ro\u0303 chi\u0301nh ba\u0323n va\u0300 ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i ba\u0323n th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Ngoa\u0300i ra, m\u00e2\u0301u ch\u00f4\u0301t v\u00e2\u0301n \u0111\u00ea\u0300 n\u0103\u0300m \u01a1\u0309 t\u00e2\u0300m nhi\u0300n cu\u0309a ba\u0323n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ba\u0323n \u0111a\u0303 cha\u0323m \u0111\u00ea\u0301n tu\u00f4\u0309i 25 hay ch\u01b0a? Ba\u0323n \u0111a\u0303 30 r\u00f4\u0300i sao? Hay chu\u00e2\u0309n bi\u0323 v\u01a1\u0301i \u0111\u00ea\u0301n con s\u00f4\u0301 25 tro\u0300n tri\u0303nh? \u0110i\u00ea\u0300u \u0111o\u0301 kh\u00f4ng quan tro\u0323ng, quan tro\u0323ng la\u0300 ba\u0323n ch\u01b0a co\u0301 s\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p. Ba\u0300i vi\u00ea\u0301t na\u0300y da\u0300nh ri\u00eang cho ba\u0323n, ha\u0303y \u0111o\u0323c no\u0301 th\u00e2\u0323t ky\u0303. Ca\u0309m xu\u0301c cu\u0309a m\u00f4\u0323t ga\u0303 \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng \u0111ang ch\u00eanh v\u00eanh, m\u00f4ng lung gi\u01b0\u0303a hai th\u00ea\u0301 s\u01b0\u0323, ti\u0300nh y\u00eau va\u0300 s\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p la\u0300 gi\u0300?<\/b><\/h2>\n

Co\u0301 r\u00e2\u0301t nhi\u00ea\u0300u kha\u0301i ni\u00ea\u0323m v\u00ea\u0300 s\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p nh\u01b0ng th\u01b0\u0323c t\u00ea\u0301 s\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p v\u00f4\u0301n di\u0303 go\u0301i go\u0323n trong m\u00f4\u0323t c\u00e2u ho\u0309i: \u201cAnh ki\u00ea\u0301m \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c bao nhi\u00eau ti\u00ea\u0300n?\u201d N\u00ea\u0301u pha\u0309i tra\u0309 l\u01a1\u0300i s\u00e2u s\u0103\u0301c thi\u0300 m\u00e2\u0301t ca\u0309 tr\u0103m t\u01a1\u0300 gi\u00e2\u0301y. Nh\u01b0ng th\u01b0\u0323c t\u00ea\u0301, s\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p lu\u00f4n \u0111i chung v\u01a1\u0301i ti\u00ea\u0300n ta\u0300i.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"su-nghiep-1\"<\/p>\n

Th\u00ea\u0301 gi\u01a1\u0301i mu\u00f4n hi\u0300nh va\u0323n tra\u0323ng, ba\u0323n se\u0303 kh\u00f4ng bi\u00ea\u0301t nga\u0300y mai ba\u0323n nh\u01b0 th\u00ea\u0301 na\u0300o? S\u00f4\u0301ng ra la\u0300m sao? Nh\u01b0ng n\u00ea\u0301u ba\u0323n la\u0300 m\u00f4\u0323t ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng co\u0301 tra\u0301ch nhi\u00ea\u0323m thi\u0300 ba\u0323n se\u0303 coi s\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p la\u0300 s\u01b0\u0323 s\u00f4\u0301ng cu\u0309a chi\u0301nh ba\u0323n. T\u01b0\u0300 x\u01b0a \u0111\u00ea\u0301n nay, trong xa\u0303 h\u00f4\u0323i lu\u00f4n \u0111e\u0300 n\u0103\u0323ng hai ch\u01b0\u0303 s\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p l\u00ean vai \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng. Vi\u0300 th\u00ea\u0301 khi sinh ra, ba\u0323n mang th\u00e2n nam nhi, chi\u0301nh la\u0300 pha\u0309i ga\u0301nh va\u0301c.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ba\u0323n se\u0303 pha\u0309i mang ca\u0309 th\u00ea\u0301 gi\u01a1\u0301i tr\u00ean vai, vu\u0303 khi\u0301 \u0111\u00ea\u0309 ba\u0323n ba\u0309o v\u00ea\u0323 th\u00ea\u0301 gi\u01a1\u0301i \u0111o\u0301 la\u0300 s\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p va\u0300 s\u01b0\u0301c kho\u0309e. S\u01b0\u0301c kho\u0309e la\u0300 \u0111i\u00ea\u0300u ki\u00ea\u0323n \u0111\u00ea\u0309 ti\u0300m ki\u00ea\u0301m s\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p. Nh\u01b0ng chi\u0309 co\u0301 s\u01b0\u0301c kho\u0309e ma\u0300 kh\u00f4ng co\u0301 s\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p, thi\u0300 trong lo\u0300ng cu\u0309a ba\u0323n v\u00e2\u0303n ng\u00f4\u0309n ngang. Th\u00ea\u0301 gi\u01a1\u0301i cu\u0309a ba\u0323n ban \u0111\u00e2\u0300u se\u0303 la\u0300 cha me\u0323, th\u01b0\u0301 hai la\u0300 ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i ba\u0323n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, th\u01b0\u0301 ba la\u0300 con ca\u0301i. Ho\u0301a ra, mo\u0323i th\u01b0\u0301 trong cu\u00f4\u0323c \u0111\u01a1\u0300i ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng co\u0301 tra\u0301ch nhi\u00ea\u0323m la\u0323i kh\u00f4\u0309 nh\u01b0 v\u00e2\u0323y.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ba\u0323n \u0111a\u0303 t\u01b0\u0300ng m\u00f4\u0323t sa\u0301ng th\u01b0\u0301c d\u00e2\u0323y nhi\u0300n cha me\u0323 chu\u00e2\u0309n bi\u0323 b\u01b0\u0303a sa\u0301ng khi ba\u0323n ngu\u0309 d\u00e2\u0323y tr\u00ea\u0303. Ba\u0323n \u0111a\u0303 l\u01a1\u0301n kh\u00f4n nh\u01b0ng v\u00e2\u0303n xin ti\u00ea\u0300n cha me\u0323. Ba\u0323n ch\u01a1\u0309 ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i y\u00eau phi\u0301a sau ma\u0300 kh\u00f4ng \u0111i\u0323nh \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c nga\u0300y v\u00ea\u0300 chung m\u00f4\u0323t nha\u0300. N\u00ea\u0301u ba\u0323n canh ca\u0301nh va\u0300 \u0111au lo\u0300ng thi\u0300 chu\u0301c m\u01b0\u0300ng ba\u0323n. Ba\u0323n \u0111a\u0303 tr\u01b0\u01a1\u0309ng tha\u0300nh.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ta\u0323i sao \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng pha\u0309i co\u0301 s\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p?<\/b><\/h2>\n

Ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i ta lu\u00f4n truy\u00ea\u0300n tai nhau c\u00e2u no\u0301i: \u201c\u0110a\u0300n \u00f4ng l\u00e2\u0301y s\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p la\u0300m \u0111\u00e2\u0300u.\u201d V\u00e2\u0323y ta\u0323i sao \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng pha\u0309i co\u0301 s\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p ma\u0300 phu\u0323 n\u01b0\u0303 la\u0323i kh\u00f4ng. Th\u00e2\u0323t ra do xa\u0303 h\u00f4\u0323i va\u0300 do ba\u0309n ch\u00e2\u0301t cu\u0309a cu\u00f4\u0323c \u0111\u01a1\u0300i. V\u00ea\u0300 m\u0103\u0323t s\u01b0\u0301c kho\u0309e l\u00e2\u0303n tri\u0301 tu\u00ea\u0323, t\u00e2m ly\u0301, n\u00ean \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng la\u0300 pha\u0301i ma\u0323nh, co\u0301 tra\u0301ch nhi\u00ea\u0323m ga\u0301nh va\u0301c.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"su-nghiep-2\"<\/p>\n

Phu\u0323 n\u01b0\u0303 th\u01a1\u0300i nay cu\u0303ng r\u00e2\u0301t quan tro\u0323ng s\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p. Nh\u01b0ng so v\u01a1\u0301i \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng thi\u0300 a\u0301p l\u01b0\u0323c gia \u0111i\u0300nh va\u0300 xa\u0303 h\u00f4\u0323i v\u00e2\u0303n \u0111\u01a1\u0303 h\u01a1n \u0111\u00f4i chu\u0301t. Vi\u0300 quy lu\u00e2\u0323t la\u0300 nh\u01b0 th\u00ea\u0301, n\u00ean t\u01b0\u0300 khi co\u0300n nho\u0309 suy nghi\u0303 \u0111o\u0301 \u0111a\u0303 hi\u0300nh tha\u0300nh trong \u0111\u00e2\u0300u cu\u0309a \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng. Do v\u00e2\u0323y, t\u00e2m ly\u0301 cu\u0309a m\u00f4\u0323t ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng lu\u00f4n mang n\u0103\u0323ng m\u00f4\u0323t tra\u0301ch nhi\u00ea\u0323m r\u00e2\u0301t l\u01a1\u0301n. S\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p cu\u0309a ho\u0323 se\u0303 giu\u0301p ho\u0323 gia\u0309i quy\u00ea\u0301t v\u00e2\u0301n \u0111\u00ea\u0300 cu\u0309a cu\u00f4\u0323c \u0111\u01a1\u0300i ho\u0323.<\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u00eam m\u00f4\u0323t v\u00e2\u0301n \u0111\u00ea\u0300 t\u00e2m ly\u0301 n\u01b0\u0303a la\u0300 do ba\u0309n ch\u00e2\u0301t cu\u0309a ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng lu\u00f4n mu\u00f4\u0301n ba\u0309o v\u00ea\u0323 va\u0300 chu c\u00e2\u0301p. Ho\u0323 lu\u00f4n mu\u00f4\u0301n chu c\u00e2\u0301p nh\u01b0\u0303ng \u0111i\u00ea\u0300u t\u00f4\u0301t \u0111e\u0323p cho ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i th\u00e2n va\u0300 ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i phu\u0323 n\u01b0\u0303 cu\u0309a ho\u0323. Ma\u0300 s\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p la\u0323i gia\u0309i quy\u00ea\u0301t r\u00e2\u0301t nhanh hai \u0111i\u00ea\u0300u \u0111o\u0301. Vi\u0300 th\u00ea\u0301 \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng lu\u00f4n c\u00e2\u0300n s\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p.<\/span><\/p>\n

Trong xa\u0303 h\u00f4\u0323i, nh\u01b0\u0303ng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng co\u0301 s\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p th\u01b0\u01a1\u0300ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c coi tro\u0323ng. Ch\u01b0a c\u00e2\u0300n nh\u0103\u0301c \u0111\u00ea\u0301n ph\u00e2\u0309m ch\u00e2\u0301t, ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i ta nhi\u0300n va\u0300o s\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p tr\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c ti\u00ean. Ca\u0301i t\u00f4i cu\u0309a \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng kha\u0301 l\u01a1\u0301n va\u0300 t\u01b0\u0309 huy\u00ea\u0323t danh ti\u00ea\u0301ng cu\u0303ng r\u00e2\u0301t l\u01a1\u0301n. S\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p la\u0300 ca\u0301ch ho\u0323 kh\u0103\u0309ng \u0111i\u0323nh vi\u0323 tri\u0301 cu\u0309a ho\u0323. Kh\u00f4\u0309 m\u00f4\u0323t \u0111i\u00ea\u0300u la\u0300 s\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p kh\u00f4ng pha\u0309i th\u01b0\u0301 d\u00ea\u0303 ti\u0300m ki\u00ea\u0301m.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p ch\u01b0a tha\u0300nh, ca\u0309m xu\u0301c ch\u00eanh v\u00eanh<\/b><\/p>\n

La\u0300m \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng thi\u0300 d\u00ea\u0303 nh\u01b0ng la\u0300m \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng \u0111u\u0301ng nghi\u0303a thi\u0300 c\u01b0\u0323c ky\u0300 kho\u0301 kh\u0103n. Ba\u0323n \u0111a\u0303 t\u01b0\u0300ng r\u01a1i va\u0300o tra\u0323ng tha\u0301i b\u00ea\u0301 t\u0103\u0301c hay b\u00e2\u0301t l\u01b0\u0323c? Ba\u0323n \u0111a\u0303 t\u01b0\u0300ng co\u0301 m\u00f4\u0323t nga\u0300y ng\u00f4\u0300i trong go\u0301c pho\u0300ng c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n? Hay \u0111i gi\u01b0\u0303a va\u0323n ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i ma\u0300 kh\u00f4ng ti\u0300m \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c \u0111i\u00ea\u0309m t\u01b0\u0323a? Ba\u0323n \u0111a\u0303 kho\u0301c nh\u01b0 m\u00f4\u0323t \u0111\u01b0\u0301a tre\u0309 ch\u01b0a?<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i nghi\u0303 ch\u0103\u0301c i\u0301t nh\u00e2\u0301t m\u00f4\u0323t l\u00e2\u0300n ba\u0323n ca\u0309m th\u00e2\u0301y nh\u01b0 v\u00e2\u0323y. Ba\u0323n co\u0301 s\u01b0\u0301c kho\u0309e, co\u0301 tri\u0301 tu\u00ea\u0323 va\u0300 co\u0301 tra\u0301ch nhi\u00ea\u0323m nh\u01b0ng ba\u0323n v\u00e2\u0303n kh\u00f4ng th\u00ea\u0309 la\u0300m gi\u0300. Ba\u0323n s\u01a1\u0323 thoa\u0301t ra kho\u0309i vo\u0300ng tro\u0300n an toa\u0300n. Cu\u0303ng co\u0301 r\u00e2\u0301t nhi\u00ea\u0300u ba\u0323n \u0111a\u0303 l\u01a1\u0301n tu\u00f4\u0309i ch\u01b0a co\u0301 \u0111i\u0323nh h\u01b0\u01a1\u0301ng, ch\u01b0a co\u0301 b\u00e2\u0301t ky\u0300 m\u00f4\u0323t ti\u00ea\u0301n tri\u00ea\u0309n na\u0300o.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ba\u0323n \u0111\u01b0\u0300ng bu\u00f4\u0300n va\u0300 u\u0309 ru\u0303. R\u00e2\u0301t nhi\u00ea\u0300u va\u0300 r\u00e2\u0301t nhi\u00ea\u0300u ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i hi\u00ea\u0323n nh\u01b0 ba\u0323n. Th\u00e2\u0323m chi\u0301 r\u00e2\u0301t nhi\u00ea\u0300u \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng co\u0300n t\u00ea\u0323 h\u01a1n ba\u0323n. Ca\u0309 nh\u01b0\u0303ng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i gio\u0309i h\u01a1n ba\u0323n ma\u0300 \u0111ang mang chung ca\u0309m gia\u0301c nh\u01b0 ba\u0323n. Ba\u0323n pha\u0309i \u0111\u01b0\u0301ng d\u00e2\u0323y, nh\u01b0 a\u0301nh n\u0103\u0301ng ti\u0300m m\u00f4\u0323t vu\u0300ng m\u00e2y tr\u00f4\u0301ng ma\u0300 thoa\u0301t ra. Chi\u0309 co\u0301 nh\u01b0 v\u00e2\u0323y ba\u0323n m\u01a1\u0301i co\u0301 th\u00ea\u0309 b\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c ti\u00ea\u0301p \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng ba\u0323n ha\u0303y kho\u0301c \u0111i, kho\u0301c m\u00f4\u0323t mi\u0300nh trong pho\u0300ng ki\u0301n va\u0300 b\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c ra kho\u0309i no\u0301 b\u0103\u0300ng m\u00f4\u0323t khu\u00f4n m\u0103\u0323t ra\u0323ng r\u01a1\u0303. \u0110a\u0300n \u00f4ng la\u0300 v\u00e2\u0323y, ho\u0323 lu\u00f4n gi\u00e2\u0301u ki\u0301n ca\u0309m xu\u0301c cu\u0309a ho\u0323 b\u0103\u0300ng m\u00f4\u0323t th\u00e2n hi\u0300nh ma\u0323nh me\u0303. Nh\u01b0ng trong t\u00e2m ho\u0323, ho\u0323 co\u0300n \u0111au h\u01a1n ca\u0309 phu\u0323 n\u01b0\u0303. Ba\u0323n \u0111\u01b0\u0300ng nghi\u0303 mi\u0300nh ma\u0323nh me\u0303, th\u00e2\u0323t ra ba\u0323n r\u00e2\u0301t y\u00ea\u0301u \u0111u\u00f4\u0301i.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ba\u0309n n\u0103ng cu\u0309a \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng<\/b><\/h2>\n

\u0110a\u0300n \u00f4ng hay phu\u0323 n\u01b0\u0303 gi\u0300 cu\u0303ng v\u00e2\u0323y, ngoa\u0300i ba\u0309n n\u0103ng v\u00ea\u0300 t\u00e2m sinh ly\u0301 thi\u0300 ba\u0309n n\u0103ng v\u00ea\u0300 cu\u00f4\u0323c \u0111\u01a1\u0300i na\u0300y cu\u0303ng r\u00e2\u0301t l\u01a1\u0301n. Ba\u0309n n\u0103ng cu\u0309a \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng co\u0301 ca\u0309 s\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p va\u0300 ti\u0300nh y\u00eau. \u0110a\u0300n \u00f4ng ho\u0323 lu\u00f4n pha\u0309i \u0111i hoa\u0300n thi\u00ea\u0323n ba nhi\u00ea\u0323m vu\u0323 quan tro\u0323ng trong cu\u00f4\u0323c \u0111\u01a1\u0300i ho\u0323. \u0110\u00f4\u0301i v\u01a1\u0301i ho\u0323, \u0111o\u0301 m\u01a1\u0301i la\u0300 m\u00f4\u0323t ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng \u0111u\u0301ng nghi\u0303a.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u01b0\u0300 khi ho\u0323 bi\u00ea\u0301t ho\u0323 sinh ra \u0111\u00ea\u0309 la\u0300m gi\u0300 thi\u0300 ho\u0323 \u0111a\u0303 xong m\u00f4\u0323t nhi\u00ea\u0323m vu\u0323 \u0111\u00e2\u0300u \u0111\u01a1\u0300i cu\u0309a ho\u0323. Ho\u0323 se\u0303 \u0111i ti\u0300m ki\u00ea\u0301m c\u00e2u tra\u0309 l\u01a1\u0300i ti\u00ea\u0301p theo \u0111o\u0301 la\u0300 ho\u0323 se\u0303 co\u0301 \u0111i\u0323a vi\u0323 nh\u01b0 th\u00ea\u0301 na\u0300o? Sau \u0111o\u0301, cu\u00f4\u0301i cu\u0300ng la\u0300 ti\u00ea\u0300n, s\u00f4\u0301 ti\u00ea\u0300n bao nhi\u00eau v\u01a1\u0301i \u0111i\u0323a vi\u0323 va\u0300 c\u00f4ng vi\u00ea\u0323c nh\u01b0 v\u00e2\u0323y.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"su-nghiep-3\"<\/p>\n

Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u01a1\u0300ng, nh\u01b0\u0303ng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng co\u0301 tra\u0301ch nhi\u00ea\u0323m hay mang \u0111i ke\u0300m hai ch\u01b0\u0303 v\u00f4 t\u00e2m. Pha\u0309n \u01b0\u0301ng ti\u00ea\u0301p theo cu\u0309a ho\u0323 khi bi\u0323 no\u0301i v\u00f4 t\u00e2m la\u0300 ho\u0323 se\u0303 t\u01b0\u0301c gi\u00e2\u0323n. Suy nghi\u0303 hoa\u0300i kh\u00f4ng bi\u00ea\u0301t ta\u0323i sao mi\u0300nh v\u00f4 t\u00e2m. Mi\u0300nh la\u0300 ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i bi\u00ea\u0301t suy nghi\u0303 ma\u0300, bi\u00ea\u0301t chi\u0323u kho\u0301 la\u0300m \u0103n va\u0300 s\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p.<\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u01b0\u0323c t\u00ea\u0301 ma\u0300 no\u0301i, \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng co\u0301 tra\u0301ch nhi\u00ea\u0323m ho\u0323 b\u00e2\u0323n da\u0300nh th\u01a1\u0300i gian cho ca\u0301c c\u00e2u ho\u0309i tr\u00ean. La\u0300m gi\u0300 co\u0301 \u0111\u00e2\u0300u o\u0301c \u0111\u00e2u ma\u0300 \u0111\u00ea\u0309 t\u00e2m \u0111\u00ea\u0301n chuy\u00ea\u0323n kha\u0301c. Chi\u0309 khi na\u0300o ho\u0323 hoa\u0300n tha\u0300nh xong s\u01b0\u0301 m\u00ea\u0323nh cu\u0309a cu\u00f4\u0323c \u0111\u01a1\u0300i ho\u0323, ho\u0323 m\u01a1\u0301i co\u0301 th\u00ea\u0309 y\u00ean t\u00e2m. Vi\u0300 th\u00ea\u0301, ba\u0323n se\u0303 th\u00e2\u0301y nh\u01b0\u0303ng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng l\u01a1\u0301n tu\u00f4\u0309i h\u01a1n th\u01b0\u01a1\u0300ng r\u00e2\u0301t tinh t\u00ea\u0301. M\u00f4\u0323t la\u0300 ho\u0323 \u0111a\u0303 hoa\u0300n tha\u0300nh xong s\u01b0\u0301 m\u00ea\u0323nh, hai la\u0300 ho\u0323 ch\u00e2\u0301p nh\u00e2\u0323n s\u01b0\u0301 m\u00ea\u0323nh \u0111o\u0301.<\/span><\/p>\n

Suy nghi\u0303 cu\u0309a \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng va\u0300 phu\u0323 n\u01b0\u0303 v\u00ea\u0300 s\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p<\/b><\/h2>\n

Khi co\u0300n \u0111\u00f4i m\u01b0\u01a1i, phu\u0323 n\u01b0\u0303 hay \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng se\u0303 y\u00eau b\u0103\u0300ng ca\u0309 tra\u0301i tim cu\u0309a ho\u0323. \u0110a\u0300n \u00f4ng suy nghi\u0303 v\u00ea\u0300 s\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p \u01a1\u0309 tu\u00f4\u0309i hai m\u01b0\u01a1i v\u00e2\u0303n ch\u01b0a ma\u0323nh me\u0303. M\u0103\u0323c du\u0300 ho\u0323 mu\u00f4\u0301n ki\u00ea\u0301m ti\u00ea\u0300n nhi\u00ea\u0300u nh\u01b0ng hai ch\u01b0\u0303 s\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p v\u00e2\u0303n co\u0300n m\u00f4ng lung. L\u01a1\u0301n th\u00eam m\u00f4\u0323t chu\u0301t hai ch\u01b0\u0303 na\u0300y \u0111e\u0300 ho\u0323 \u0111\u00ea\u0301n kho\u0301 th\u01a1\u0309.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f4\u0301i v\u01a1\u0301i phu\u0323 n\u01b0\u0303 co\u0300n tre\u0309, ho\u0323 y\u00eau va\u0300 chi\u0309 bi\u00ea\u0301t y\u00eau th\u00f4i. Ho\u0323 ch\u01b0a suy nghi\u0303 \u0111\u00ea\u0301n tu\u00f4\u0309i gia\u0300 va\u0300 se\u0303 s\u00f4\u0301ng nh\u01b0 th\u00ea\u0301 na\u0300o sau na\u0300y. Ho\u0323 c\u00e2\u0300n ti\u0300nh y\u00eau, c\u00e2\u0300n s\u01b0\u0323 quan t\u00e2m va\u0300 chi\u00ea\u0300u chu\u00f4\u0323ng h\u00ea\u0301t m\u01b0\u0323c t\u01b0\u0300 ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i ho\u0323 y\u00eau. Phu\u0323 n\u01b0\u0303 \u0111a ph\u00e2\u0300n se\u0303 nghi\u0303 \u0111\u01a1n gia\u0309n h\u01a1n \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng v\u00ea\u0300 \u0111i\u00ea\u0309m na\u0300y. Nh\u01b0ng co\u0301 r\u00e2\u0301t nhi\u00ea\u0300u \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng tr\u01b0\u01a1\u0309ng tha\u0300nh r\u00e2\u0301t s\u01a1\u0301m, chi\u0309 m\u01a1\u0301i g\u00e2\u0300n hai m\u01b0\u01a1i ma\u0300 ho\u0323 \u0111a\u0303 suy nghi\u0303 xa x\u00f4i. Chi\u0301nh vi\u0300 th\u00ea\u0301, ca\u0300ng la\u0300m cho c\u00f4 ga\u0301i b\u00ean ca\u0323nh ho\u0323 tr\u01a1\u0309 n\u00ean m\u00ea\u0323t mo\u0309i. Th\u00e2\u0323m chi\u0301 co\u0300n bi\u0323 cho la\u0300 v\u00f4 t\u00e2m, v\u00f4 ca\u0309m.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng n\u00ea\u0301u y\u00eau th\u00e2\u0323t lo\u0300ng ho\u0323 se\u0303 co\u0301 m\u00f4\u0323t s\u01b0\u0323 cam k\u00ea\u0301t l\u00e2u da\u0300i. \u0110\u0103\u0323c bi\u00ea\u0323t la\u0300 v\u00ea\u0300 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai xa x\u00f4i. Ho\u0323 se\u0303 nhi\u0300n va\u0300o ba\u0300n tay ho\u0323, h\u00f4m nay va\u0300 nga\u0300y mai ho\u0323 co\u0301 gi\u0300, la\u0300m \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c gi\u0300 cho c\u00f4 ga\u0301i ho\u0323 y\u00eau. Ho\u0323 se\u0303 b\u00e2\u0301t l\u01b0\u0323c khi th\u00e2\u0301y c\u00f4 ga\u0301i ho\u0323 c\u00e2\u0300n ti\u00ea\u0300n gia\u0309i quy\u00ea\u0301t vi\u00ea\u0323c gi\u0300 \u0111o\u0301. C\u00f4 ga\u0301i \u00e2\u0301y n\u00ea\u0301u y\u00eau ho\u0323 va\u0300 hi\u00ea\u0309u cho ho\u0323 thi\u0300 ho\u0323 th\u00e2\u0301y an u\u0309i. Nh\u01b0ng lo\u0300ng ho\u0323 \u0111au va\u0300 ca\u0300ng \u0111au h\u01a1n, vi\u0300 \u0111o\u0301 la\u0300 t\u00e2m ly\u0301 cu\u0309a \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng co\u0301 tra\u0301ch nhi\u00ea\u0323m.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f4\u0301i v\u01a1\u0301i phu\u0323 n\u01b0\u0303 thi\u0300 khi ho\u0323 tr\u01b0\u01a1\u0309ng tha\u0300nh h\u01a1n m\u00f4\u0323t chu\u0301t ho\u0323 se\u0303 bi\u00ea\u0301t suy nghi\u0303 h\u01a1n. Ho\u0323 se\u0303 co\u0301 xu h\u01b0\u01a1\u0301ng cho\u0323n \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng co\u0301 s\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p. Vi\u0300 v\u01a1\u0301i nhi\u00ea\u0300u ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i, t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai v\u00e2\u0303n quan tro\u0323ng h\u01a1n ti\u0300nh y\u00eau. N\u00ea\u0301u ho\u0323 co\u0301 s\u0103\u0301c \u0111e\u0323p, thi\u0300 r\u00e2\u0301t hi\u00ea\u0301m khi th\u00e2\u0301y ho\u0323 cho\u0323n m\u00f4\u0323t ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i \u0111a\u0300n \u00f4ng bi\u0300nh th\u01b0\u01a1\u0300ng \u0111\u00ea\u0309 k\u00ea\u0301t h\u00f4n.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f4 g\u00e1i xu\u00e2\u0301t hi\u00ea\u0323n khi ba\u0323n co\u0300n tre\u0309<\/b><\/h2>\n

Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd \u00edt ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u gian kh\u1ed5 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Khi c\u00f2n l\u00e0 sinh vi\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta m\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111i\u1ec1u. Nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 m\u00e0u h\u1ed3ng lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 khi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c sinh vi\u00ean c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 n\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f4 g\u00e1i xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb, h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea1n qu\u00ean c\u1ea3 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai, ra sao. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u01b0\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f4 g\u00e1i \u0111o ra sao. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n anh ta rung \u0111\u1ed9ng, anh ta s\u1ebd m\u1eb7c k\u1ec7 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i g\u00ec. Nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, h\u1ecd ch\u1ecdn ch\u1ed3ng k\u1ef9 h\u01a1n \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1edbi h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, h\u1ecd xem ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho h\u1ecd d\u1ef1a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng? Ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00ec th\u1ebf, khi y\u00eau nhau sau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n y\u00eau. Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111a ph\u1ea7n l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3. Th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00ean c\u1ea3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 g\u00e1i ch\u01b0a tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. C\u00e1c c\u00f4 g\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p. S\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

L\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u00e0o \u0111i l\u1ea5y v\u1ee3 m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i h\u1ecfi c\u00e2u:\u201dEm \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u01b0a?\u201d Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u00ec lu\u00f4n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng \u0111i l\u00ean. Ai r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng kh\u00e1c, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3 ta c\u00f2n qu\u00e1 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra ta \u0111\u1ed5i thay.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u1ea7n g\u00ec \u1edf ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef<\/b><\/h2>\n

N\u1ebfu n\u00f3i r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng ra th\u00ec b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u1eeba t\u1ed1t l\u1ea1i v\u1eeba x\u1ea5u. \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng h\u1ecd c\u0169ng \u00edch k\u1ef7 v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u gi\u1ea5u k\u00edn. \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng khi y\u00eau, th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u00f2n \u0111i\u00ean r\u1ed3 h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u chi ph\u1ed1i \u1edf t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng. Anh ta s\u1ebd suy ngh\u0129 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecd s\u1ebd nhanh ch\u00e1n, ho\u1eb7c l\u1ea7m \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ea1c l\u1ed1i trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef bi\u1ebft quan t\u00e2m s\u1ebb chia, hy sinh v\u00ec h\u1ecd. \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 chung th\u1ee7y h\u1ebft l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng l\u00e0m h\u1ecd tr\u1edf n\u00ean x\u1ea5u \u0111i \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, s\u1ef1 ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c kh\u00e1 cao. N\u00f3 nh\u01b0 \u0103n v\u00e0o m\u00e1u c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u00fd tr\u00ed m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m bu\u1ed3n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef h\u1ecd y\u00eau.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef bi\u1ebft ch\u0103m s\u00f3c gia \u0111\u00ecnh anh ta. C\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 v\u00e0 ch\u1edf che. Th\u1eadt ra, ni\u1ec1m h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 h\u1ecd cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng sung t\u00fac. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1nh v\u1ee3, \u0111\u00e1nh con. Th\u1eadt ra l\u00e0 h\u1ecd y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c. H\u1ecd ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1ed7i \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u1edf ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c nhau. C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ec c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n nhu c\u1ea7u c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau b\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. Suy cho c\u00f9ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 quy lu\u1eadt n\u00e0o l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 sai trong chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. L\u00fd do v\u1eabn m\u00e3i l\u00e0 l\u00fd do. \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i g\u1ed7 \u0111\u00e1. Ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111ang suy ngh\u0129.<\/span><\/p>\n

Khi s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p ch\u01b0a th\u00e0nh<\/b><\/h2>\n

V\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, khi s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p ch\u01b0a th\u00e0nh, c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh, l\u00e0m sao ta kh\u00f4ng lo. \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m l\u00e0 th\u1ebf, ng\u00e0y \u0103n kh\u00f4ng ngon, \u0111\u00eam v\u1ec1 ng\u1ee7 kh\u00f4ng y\u00ean. S\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p dang d\u1edf, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n h\u01b0 \u1ea3o cho m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u0129nh c\u1eedu.<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 \u0111i, l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u00f2n kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m m\u1ed9t t\u00fap l\u1ec1u tranh hai tr\u00e1i tim v\u00e0ng. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111au l\u00f2ng khi kh\u00f4ng lo h\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho con c\u00e1i. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bu\u1ed3n khi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 cho con \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed1t khi n\u00f3 h\u1ecdc gi\u1ecfi. C\u00f2n tr\u1edb tr\u00eau h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a con ngoan ngo\u00e3n, tu ch\u00ed l\u00e0m \u0103n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap g\u00ec cho n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n v\u00f4 v\u1ecdng.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"su-nghiep-4\"<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 con. Nh\u01b0ng gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f2n d\u00e0i, s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng t\u1eeb t\u1eeb. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n ai c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u0169ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ng\u00e0y mai s\u1ebd ra sao. S\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p ch\u01b0a th\u00e0nh, kh\u00f4ng l\u1ebd \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ed9i bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i.<\/span><\/p>\n

Khi s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 m\u00e0 gi\u00fap. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng, \u0111\u1eebng b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c khi ch\u01b0a qu\u00e1 gi\u00e0.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/b><\/h3>\n

S\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e0i cho vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p. S\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u00fac b\u1ea1n v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 v\u00e0 m\u1ecfi m\u1ec7t. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 an \u1ee7i v\u00e0 s\u1ebb chia. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ef1a \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i tinh th\u1ea7n. Ai s\u1ebd \u1edf b\u00ean b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3, h\u00e3y tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u1eb7ng y\u00ean nh\u00ecn ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111i theo m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ch\u00e0ng trai gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u1ea5y. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf b\u00ean m\u00ecnh trong l\u00fac kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u1ea5t. Con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p, bao nhi\u00eau ch\u00f4ng gai v\u00e0 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 s\u1ebd b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n trong ch\u00ednh n\u1ed7i ni\u1ec1m c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u1ea3 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi nh\u01b0 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u1ea3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00ec y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00ean x\u1ea3y ra, ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n trai m\u00ecnh an to\u00e0n n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu n\u1ed5i s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng trai \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p t\u1eeb b\u1ecf ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/b><\/h2>\n

T\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef. \u1ede th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 21 th\u00ec kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m n\u00e0y b\u1ecb sai ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n hay m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n g\u00ec. Mi\u1ec5n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y rung \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n

Khi c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn hai tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, \u0111au kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ai v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00fd tr\u00ed. B\u1ea1n c\u1ee9 ngh\u0129 \u0111i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb ng\u1ed1c d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n y\u00eau n\u1eefa.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"su-nghiep-5\"<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb \u0111\u1ee9ng ngo\u00e0i m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ta l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb ng\u1ed1c m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e2u n\u00f3i cho \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p, c\u00e1i n\u00e0o quan tr\u1ecdng? B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u th\u00ec \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y c\u00e3i nhau v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00e2y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ng\u1ee7 ngon?<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1eady th\u1eadt s\u1edbm \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i l\u00e0m, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau sao? Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn khi y\u00eau ai \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m d\u00f9 nhi\u1ec1u hay \u00edt. \u00cdt nhi\u1ec1u g\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, s\u1ebd th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 h\u01a1n \u1edf nam gi\u1edbi.<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a<\/b><\/h2>\n

\u0110a ph\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta c\u1ee9 \u0111i theo c\u1ea3m x\u00fac nhi\u1ec1u trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. \u0110a ph\u1ea7n ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef h\u1ecd hay h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn khi y\u00eau m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai tr\u1ebb. V\u00ec h\u1ecd hy v\u1ecdng qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, c\u00e1c ch\u00e0ng trai suy ngh\u0129 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. M\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u01b0 x\u1eed kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i.<\/span><\/p>\n

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  • \u00b7<\/span> \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span>\u1ede ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng tr\u1ebb tu\u1ed5i<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    H\u1ecd s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n n\u1eafm b\u1eaft t\u00e2m \u00fd c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 qu\u00e1 kh\u00f3. H\u1ecd cho r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u cho h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd h\u01a1n thua v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecd y\u00eau v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch r\u00f5 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. H\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 cho c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Khi c\u00e3i nhau, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n h\u1ebft gi\u1eadn tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ea1n gi\u1eadn.<\/span><\/p>\n

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    • \u00b7<\/span> \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh khi y\u00eau<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh khi tr\u1ea3i qua h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eafng cay cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi h\u1ecd s\u1ebd tr\u1ea7m l\u1eafng l\u1ea1i. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng th\u00e8m \u0111\u00f4i co v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef h\u1ecd y\u00eau. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd chi\u1ec1u chu\u1ed9ng b\u1ea1n h\u01a1n \u201cch\u00e0ng trai n\u0103m \u1ea5y\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 qua. Khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e3i nhau, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd im l\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 t\u1ecf ra th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u00e2n c\u1ea7n. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd y\u00eau b\u1ea1n h\u01a1n ch\u00e0ng trai tr\u1ebb n\u0103m \u1ea5y.<\/span><\/p>\n

      Nh\u1eefng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu<\/b><\/h2>\n

      \u00c1p l\u1ef1c l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee9 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng, gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 n\u01a1i \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ebb chia, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u00e1p l\u1ef1c. B\u1ea1n th\u1eed ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi con xa qu\u00ea l\u00ean th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc. B\u1ea1n ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 \u0111i l\u00e0m v\u1edbi mong mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 lo \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh d\u01b0\u1edbi qu\u00ea. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u1ee3 n\u1ea7n, kh\u00f4ng xin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ee9?<\/span><\/p>\n

      R\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y d\u00e0i th\u1ea5t nghi\u1ec7p \u1edf nh\u00e0. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5m h\u1ebft s\u1ef1 \u00e1p l\u1ef1c m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh b\u1edfi t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho b\u1ea1n. V\u1ed1n d\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t quy lu\u1eadt b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn. V\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3, n\u00ean b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t \u0111i. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 n\u01a1i \u0111\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 n\u01a1i l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n \u00e1p l\u1ef1c nh\u1ea5t.<\/span><\/p>\n

      Khi b\u1ea1n c\u00fap h\u1ecdc, c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n s\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea1n ngu \u0111i. C\u00e1i b\u1ea1n lo l\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n c\u00fap h\u1ecdc. B\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ea5y, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p theo suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd vui nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi h\u1ecd \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t.<\/span><\/p>\n

      S\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng, b\u1ea1n sai l\u1ea7m m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n bu\u1ed3n. \u00c1p l\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd t\u0103ng l\u00ean g\u1ea5p b\u1ed9i. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1. Nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y l\u1ec5 t\u1ebft s\u1ebd l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n ng\u1ed9t ng\u1ea1t. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f2n g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn h\u01a1n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

      T\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3<\/b><\/h2>\n

      Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y kh\u00e1 v\u00f4 v\u1ecb. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u1ea5y l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb th\u00ec h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong c\u00e1c c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i ngang qua cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n n\u0103m m\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3y tu\u1ed5i s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1nh d\u1ea5u m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1c tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi.<\/span><\/p>\n

      Ngo\u00e0i ra, m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i \u0111i qua cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n n\u0103m b\u1ea1n hai m\u01b0\u01a1i tu\u1ed5i s\u1ebd c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebb chia m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 chuy\u1ec7n bu\u1ed3n. M\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i b\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n n\u0103m b\u1ea1n hai l\u0103m, h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 gi\u1eef c\u00f4 \u1ea5y. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf b\u00ean b\u1ea1n l\u00fac b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i nh\u1ea5t.<\/span><\/p>\n

      Th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 ngo\u00e0i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng c\u1ed1 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm. V\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1ee9 duy nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n b\u1edbt c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n. C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n khi c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. B\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb c\u00f9ng c\u1ea3nh ng\u1ed9. H\u00e3y t\u00ecm cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tri k\u1ef7 thay v\u00ec m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3.<\/span><\/p>\n

      Nh\u1eefng c\u00f4 g\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t<\/b><\/h2>\n

      Tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00e0o c\u0169ng quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb v\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n t\u00e0i c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng. H\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 lo cho h\u1ecd v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n lo cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/span><\/p>\n

      \"su-nghiep-6\"<\/p>\n

      B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ecd, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u1edbn l\u1eafm r\u1ed3i. Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u00edt. C\u00f3 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef h\u1ecd c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ecdn ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/span><\/p>\n

      B\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ea5y, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1eafm. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 duy\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecd hay kh\u00f4ng. R\u1ed3i s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u cho b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i khuy\u00ean b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0m bu\u1ed3n nh\u1eefng c\u00f4 g\u00e1i t\u1ed1t. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0ng d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea1n th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bao nhi\u00eau.<\/span><\/p>\n

      Nh\u1eefng c\u00f4 g\u00e1i t\u1ed1t, h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eadn l\u1ea5y cay \u0111\u1eafng. Sau \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0 ban \u0111\u1ea7u. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u00e1ch h\u1ecd. \u0110\u1ebfn khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng tr\u00e1ch h\u1ecd. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 quy lu\u1eadt, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng d\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ai c\u1ea3. H\u00e3y b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn n\u00f3, \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng c\u00f4 g\u00e1i t\u1ed1t kh\u00f3c v\u00ec b\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

      B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n<\/b><\/h2>\n

      C\u00f3 l\u1ebd khi \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2y th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 \u00e1p l\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ch\u01b0a s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p. Ch\u00eanh v\u00eanh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ef1a. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng y\u00eau xa ch\u01b0a? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng th\u1eadt gi\u1ecfi.<\/span><\/p>\n

      \u0110\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ed1ng ch\u1ecdi v\u1edbi th\u1eed th\u00e1ch v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i c\u00f3 t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh nhanh nh\u1ea5t. B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn, b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. Khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra b\u1ea1n c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o. Khi \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ebb chia. B\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn ra kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ai b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh, b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

      T\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 khi c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd qu\u00fd tr\u1ecdng, m\u1ea5t \u0111i th\u00ec h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, c\u00e1c ch\u00e0ng trai sau khi m\u00ea \u0111\u1eafm m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 g\u00ec trong tay, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u0169 cho m\u1ea5y. B\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 th\u1eed \u0111i, b\u1ea1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 chia tay c\u0169.<\/span><\/p>\n

      V\u00ec th\u1ebf, b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. H\u00e3y th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n y\u00eau. \u0110\u1eebng chia tay hay quen m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng suy ngh\u0129. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111ang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p.<\/span><\/p>\n

      B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i<\/b><\/h2>\n

      M\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ph\u00ed tu\u1ed5i xu\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n. Khi anh ta c\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, li\u1ec7u anh ta c\u00f2n y\u00eau m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 x\u01b0a. Hay anh ta t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u00ec ng\u1ed9, th\u00edch nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i m\u1edbi m\u1ebb v\u00e0 hay mu\u1ed1n chinh ph\u1ee5c. B\u1ea3n t\u00ednh \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0m h\u1ecd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/span><\/p>\n

      B\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd chung th\u1ee7y sao? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f2i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u b\u1ea1n y\u00eau b\u1ea1n l\u00fac n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 d\u00e1m cam k\u1ebft v\u1edbi h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 sau. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 k\u1ebb h\u00e8n nh\u00e1t. Kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7.<\/span><\/p>\n

      N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u1edf b\u00ean b\u1ea1n l\u00fac kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u1ea5t, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i hy sinh t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng hay x\u1ea3y ra. Ch\u1ec9 mong b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eadn l\u1ef1c v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee7. V\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec, ch\u1ec9 mong th\u1ea5y k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3.<\/span><\/p>\n

      Trong t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u00ec kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eadn t\u00e2m hay ch\u01b0a. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c hay kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 vui bu\u1ed3n ch\u1ed1c l\u00e1t. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eadn t\u00e2m m\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c t\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 mong \u0111\u1ee3i, th\u00ec h\u00e3y ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ed1 m\u1ec7nh. M\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 cho n\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ed1 m\u1ec7nh th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng suy ngh\u0129 g\u00ec n\u1eefa.<\/span><\/p>\n

      S\u01b0\u0323 nghi\u00ea\u0323p va\u0300 ti\u0300nh y\u00eau, n\u00ean cho\u0323n gi\u0300?<\/b><\/h2>\n

      S\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd cho b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft l\u00fac n\u00e0o n\u00ean ch\u1ecdn, l\u00fac n\u00e0o n\u00ean bu\u00f4ng. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n lo cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m. H\u00e3y y\u00eau, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c cho b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm l\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p.<\/span><\/p>\n

      C\u00f4 g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n hay so s\u00e1nh b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ebb chia c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1eebng v\u1ed9i chia tay, h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian suy ngh\u0129. B\u1ea1n n\u00ean gi\u1ea3i b\u00e0y nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ed3i h\u00e3y quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

      N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 \u0111ang \u0111\u01a1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i khuy\u00ean b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y gi\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf s\u1ef1 s\u1ebb chia, h\u01a1n t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u00e0 tri k\u1ef7, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau trong s\u00e1ng. \u0110\u1eebng v\u1ed9i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh y\u00eau l\u00fac n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ban y\u00eau. Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 sai ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u00fang, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 kh\u1ed5 \u0111au v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/span><\/p>\n

      B\u1ea1n \u0111ang g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu kh\u1ed5 c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y mu\u1ed1n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n, th\u00ec t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n th\u1eed suy ngh\u0129 x\u00e9t ra c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 sau. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n do c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bu\u1ed3n v\u00e0 kh\u1ed5 khi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng tin b\u1ea1n v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb v\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c h\u01a1n. Hai l\u00fd \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u01b0a h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau b\u1ea1n, m\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/span><\/p>\n

      Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/b><\/h2>\n
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      • T\u1ea1o m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

        S\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t. M\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng tr\u00ean n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng cho v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n thi\u1ebfu \u0111i c\u00e1ch giao ti\u1ebfp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i th\u00ec th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7. C\u00e1ch \u0103n n\u00f3i v\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 tham kh\u1ea3o ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt giao ti\u1ebfp.<\/span><\/p>\n

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        • Ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch s\u1ed1ng<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

          M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch th\u00ec c\u00f3 l\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1i nghi\u1ec7p. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean m\u1ed9t s\u01a1 \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ai, l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec th\u00ec m\u1edbi h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi trau d\u1ed3i ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng cho m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi 25 tu\u1ed5i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec? H\u00e3y t\u00ecm cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1.<\/span><\/p>\n

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          • \u0110i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

            Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f2n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 EQ. Tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 EQ l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nhanh h\u01a1n. B\u1ea1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u00ec s\u1ebd g\u00e2y ra r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00e3i l\u1ea1i s\u1ebfp ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec1m n\u00e9n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn khi b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd m\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/span><\/p>\n

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            • Ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

              N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb suy y\u1ebfu. K\u1ebb suy y\u1ebfu l\u00e0m sao s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ean th\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u01b0\u1eddng. Nh\u1eefng quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch hay nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c hay t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u0169 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. N\u00ean nh\u1edb, ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u0169 kh\u00ed l\u1ee3i h\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t. Ti\u1ec1n mua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng n\u1ea1p v\u00e0o n\u00e3o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c th\u00ec l\u1ea1i ki\u1ebfm ra ti\u1ec1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

              Gi\u1eefa s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn c\u1ea3 hai v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng. Ch\u1ec9 khi n\u00e0o qu\u00e1 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i. M\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau b\u00e9 nh\u1ecf b\u1ea1n gi\u1eef kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p l\u1edbn kia b\u1ea1n gi\u1eef l\u00e0m sao. H\u00e3y th\u00f4ng minh trong c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 hai n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c.<\/b><\/p>\n

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